5 Signs You’re Wasting Your Time With Him

I get DMs asking this question all the time.

“How do I know when I should stop putting effort in?”

”Why would he treat me like his girlfriend but say he doesn’t want a relationship?”

One of the biggest mistakes I see women making in dating is waiting around too long for the WRONG person.

If you’ve ever been in a situationship, you know how confusing it can be.

You are doing all the “relationship” things but without the relationship title.

The question often arises — why would he spend time with me if he doesn’t want a future with me?

It’s because he is getting everything he wants from the relationship.

Especially if you are sleeping with him.

He gets all the benefits of a relationship without any of the hard work.

I’m offering a little bit of the tough love today because if you’re here on my page, you’re most likely here BECAUSE you are ready for a fulfilling committed relationship.  

And the thing that keeps you from that relationship is entertaining the wrong people.

So here are your 5 signs to stop doing that today!

1. He doesn’t know if he wants a relationship

This is an immediate red flag. There is absolutely no reason to date this person.

2. You don’t have a shared vision for the future

Meaning, your desires for the future don’t align. He doesn’t talk about the future with you. He doesn’t plan dates too far in advance. Or he doesn’t make plans at all.

3. He isn’t open and willing to talk about deeper things

He isn’t willing to talk if something upsets you or if you are triggered. He doesn’t talk about boundaries and desires and emotions, etc. Remember — the key here is willingness.

4. Limited effort

He might make plans with you once a week, but he isn’t making the effort to make you feel cherished, and romanced, like you’re the one and only.

You feel like you initiate to make plans more often than he does.

5. Inconsistent Communication

If he uses the excuse that he was busy with work or had a lot going on — no.

People make time for what they care about. No one is too busy to send one text message.

He didn’t reach out because he doesn’t care that much.

If you’re ready to stop choosing the wrong partners and finally feel cherished by a secure, masculine man — watch my free training today.